SLIMEBALL JUNIOR

I was online at Yahoo Messenger when out of the blue one of the guys I used to date said hi.. and started chatting with me. I used to date him quite intensively a few years back and we broke up because while he enjoyed my traits etc, I didn’t fit with his vision of the demure docile bride….. so ok.. fine. By Malaysian standard, I’m more the spunky smart type… I don’t fall in love too often and that was a really serious time for me. It was very very complicated that I had to go away when he got married and that’s another reason why I welcomed the chance to go away and do my masters degree. So, ok… that’s fine. On my Yahoo Messenger, I always appear offline just to him so he never bothered me before and the reason why I put him on the permanent offline was because in the early months after his wedding, he met me online and started the conversation with, “Hello Princess” to me… I mean what’s up with that? You go “Princess” your wife, not me! and he just got married and starting to crave my attention again. Obviously he liked the way I treated him. Just not brave enough to commit. I started to get the heebie jeebies and just made my excuses and put myself on permanent offline to him. Sorry buddy, I don’t do married men. I get too much of that as it is.

It has been a couple of years so I figured that what’s the harm so I took off the permanent offline label and started to appear online to him again. I thought the passing years would have changed him a bit and he said hello to me again today and starting to talk about wanting other wives… I mean how twisted can you be? And I told him don’t talk to me about that. It gives me the creep and he said that I’m being too sensitive. And that he was just kidding. Kidding or not, I told him I’m allergic to talks about polygamy especially when it comes from him. Damn right I’m sensitive about it. I‘m disgusted is more like it.

I’m not saying that he wanted me to be a second wife or something, it’s just that I knew him before and before he got married, he would have never said things like that. How come when he gets married, suddenly he feels that it’s appropriate to talk about that? I mean, what happened to him?

I did meet up with him for lunch about a year or so ago… and as I sat there and looked at him, I wondered what I ever saw in him. Yeah, he was good looking and all but no substance. All fluff…. God really did me a favor there… It hurt so much when we broke up but it’s all good in the long run.

Just want to share my disturbing online encounter with one of my old boyfriends. Sick…